Thursday, October 30, 2008

Girls weekend away!


I went to Detroit with a couple of friends of mine for the weekend. I grew up in Michigan, but have never been in downtown Detroit before. What a sad, messed up city. Extremely run down and in many places just totally abandoned. One of the only cities I have ever been in where there are abandoned skyscapers in the skyline. Very sad and messed up. Anyways, besides that, we had a good time. Liza is from Puerto Rico, and she is loads of fun. Carissa is from Detroit and we play volleyball together and hang out all the time. We all have a good time together.


Carissa, her sister, Timeri, and I. We were laughing hysterically, because every picture we took Carissa's eyes were closed!



Finally one with her eyes OPEN! lol


We laughed at Liza because she was so cold. As we were walking to our car, we couldn't find it for a minute, but when we did she squealed and ran to it as fast as she could! She was not prepared for a cold Michigan night!



The three amigos!



Don't look if you gross out easily!


Ashley and her family went on a mini vacation last weekend. I was surpised when I got a text from Leslie (her mom) that said that they had just gotten back from the hospital and Ashley had gotten 5 stitches because a dog bit her. The family they were visiting have an older Chow mix and I guess he didn't take a liking to Ashley. No one really knows what happened, and Ashley doesn't remember what happened. But the dog bit down on her nose and completely severed her septum. I can only imagine the sight that met Leslie's eyes! YUCK! And scary. Thankfully it is a good place to get a bite (if there is such a thing) because the scarring should be minimal. Of course she does have a Grandpa who is a plastic surgeon, so I guess either way, she will be fine. lol



Thursday, October 23, 2008

Photoshoot for Elizabeth and Brooke!

Elizabeth loves to go and get her picture taken. She thinks its great fun. In fact, when it is time to leave she cries! lol


The photographer had a great time taking her pics.

Such a pretty little girl!

You can see the scratch on her cheek, compliments of Co-Co


The little lion!


She was trying to find her lion ears!


Ya gotta love Halloween!

Grr!




Unfortunately, Brooke did not share Elizabeths fascination with getting her pics taken. She took one look at the photographer and started screaming bloody murder. The ONLY reason we got these two smiles is because I was tickling her thigh....it worked twice and then everything went downhill from there!


She is smack dab in the "stranger danger" phobia right now. Its so embarrassing when someone leans in to say, "Hi cute baby!" and she starts screaming like they poked her with a pin!

Yep, tears and everything



This is the one that where we finally gave up! Look at those tears and the red face. She is looking at me, like"PLEASE save me!"

Miscellaneous....


My boss, Leslie, came home from work last Thursday and said she has tickets to go the Sarah Palin rally Friday, if I wanted to go! Of course, I wanted to go! I don't work for her on fridays, so I was trying to think if I could go with just Riley, the little girl that I do work for on Fridays. but because Leslie had Brooke and I had Riley, we decided to go late even though that would mean we wouldn't get a good view. As you can see from the pic, it was not the best view, but we could still see her and we could hear her so it was a good time!


Riley was a pro. Not one complaint the WHOLE time! She totally entertained herself and was as good as gold.

This is Brooke and her mommy, Leslie. She was also pretty good. She should have been sleeping, but being the nosy baby she is, she had to stay awake so she didn't miss anything.


Teresa was asking to see some recent pics of Elizabeth, and it just so happens that I had just taken some! :-) This is her kitty, CO-CO. She loves that kitty right to death (seriously, almost to death) It is a great kitten and it pretty much lets her carry it everywhere. Though she does have a few scratches to show some escape attempts were tried. :-)



She is just the cutest little thing ever! :-)









Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Jenna comes for a visit!


Our cousin Jenna came to visit for the weekend. Well, actually, she came to work for the weekend and then we convinced her to stay a few extra days! We had so much fun.

I hardly ever get to spend time with my cousins anymore, so I was so happy to get some time with her. As you can see, when we get together, there isn't a serious moment!

Too funny!!!

I think we all gained a few abs we laughed so hard.


We are such dorks, but that is the fun of it. We are so happy you came to visit Jenna!

Fall pics at Sharon Woods


These are all the kids I nanny for right now.



These kids are the Hickey Family. Kyle is 12, Zack is 10, and Riley is 5


Kyle


Zack


Riley


Enjoying the fall weather and leaves


Ashley 5 years


Ashley and Brooke are the other family I nanny for.


Brooke 9 months

My cousin Jenna was visiting this weekend and she loves photography as much as I do and has actually taken some classes for it, so I convinced her to stay a couple of days extra and we tromped around Sharon Woods and took pics of my kids! It was so much fun and the kids even enjoyed it as well, so that is a big plus! :-) Thanks, Jenna for the beautiful pics!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Saying goodbye to "Bubba"


Many of you know that I was a nanny to a household who owned an Irish Wolfhound Kennel. I will never forget my first look at those giant dogs as I pulled in their driveway. Somehow I knew just by looking at them, that they were totally safe, even though they were as large as some ponys. I was a bit dismayed when I realized that they were house dogs. You see, I was NOT a dog person. I liked dogs.....I just didn't like to touch them, or get their hair on me, or slobber, or anything else remotely resembling dog residue. But, I needed the job, so I dug in, and boy, did I change! I fell in love. NO joke....I really did. I love this breed. They are a spectactular dog in many more ways than their incredible size. When my boss was 7 months pregnant with Kaelah, we found out that one of the dogs was going to have puppies. I was kind of excited, but my pregnant boss wasn't quite so thrilled. I think spent a couple of nights and a day without sleep while 8 months pregnant, on her hands and knees delivering 12 puppies. The puppies are so small in relation to the mom, that you have to help with the delivery, else they accidently, fatally injure the newborns. Anyway, I digress. Of those 12 puppies, they kept 2. My sister is holding both of them in the above picture. The light colored puppy is my "bubba", Riley.

He was the biggest puppy of them all, and he was the sweetest thing you ever want to know. He was cuddly and had the best personality. He and Kaelah grew up together. She used to crawl up on his back to get in her chair that she liked best. In this second picture, Riley was probably about 3 or 4 weeks old.

Here is Riley at about 1 year. He never grew into the typical "wolfhound look." They generally have much more hair on their faces. He got burrs in his facial hair when he was about 6 months old and I had to trim them out and his hair never really grew back. I don't think Scott (owner) ever totally forgave me for that one! lol The thing about Riley is, he had personality that wouldn't quit. He loved certain people and that was all there was too it. He loved my brother even though he only saw him about 3 or 4 times a year. He never forgot Ryan and even this last July when Ryan saw him, he got so excited he about mauled Ryan right to death!


Here he is with another puppy from a batch years later. He was always very tolerant of the puppies.


And very tolerant of the kids. They could do about anything to these dogs and the dogs would just lay there sleeping.

Seth trying to take a nap on Riley.


Our Christmas picture one year. He loved me to take him in the car. If he was out of the house when I was going home at night he would sneak in my car before I could stop him and then sit down. I would have to literally drag him out of the car.


Me and my baby! Oh....the stories I could tell. The time I came home from somewhere and the halloween candy was gone from the middle of the table--wrappers and all. It was like they just vanished. Or the time I took him to get groomed and when I came back he came close to destroying their waiting room because he was so happy and relieved to see me. The night that he disappeared and they finally found him in a neighbors in ground pool. He was most likely in that pool for over 5 hours. He was close to drowning, and the old lady was in the pool trying to help him when the firemen came, and they were too scared of him to help her out. She had to prove to them that he wasn't mean before they would help. No food was safe from Riley. Even food that you THOUGHT was far enough up or back....well...think again! He was like a magician when it came to stealing food. Whole pizzas have been consumed, loaves of bread, tons of chocolate, plastic bags that were attached to bread (which was embarrassingly excreted while on a walk with me!), and I am thinking he might have even gotten a big roast or ham or something like that. He could curl himself up in a tiny ball when He needed to. He really thought he was a lap dog, even though he weighed close to #160 and stood over six feet tall on his hind legs. When I would sit down, he would get up on my lap and just curl up and relax. Yeah, he was something special......


Riley only jumped up on people he really liked. That meant basically, myself, my brother, Ryan and Scott and Diane (owners). I went over for a visit a week ago or so and he got so excited. He knew when I was "supposed" to be there and when I wasn't . If I was there at an odd time, he would get very excited. I think he was always hoping that I would take him on a walk. Wolfhounds in general have very long tails and about a year and a half ago, Riley got his caught in a door, and yanked it out without the door being open. This ripped off all the fur and skin from the bottom of his tail. Now, imagine a 2 to 3 ft tail-- wagging....yeah, it was not a pretty sight to come home to. It was like someone was massacred in the house. Because his tail is so long and he gets so excited and wags it and hits thing, his tail never really healed up completely. It would get close at times, but then he would wack it on the table or something and it would crack back open. Because of this, we think it weakened him and he developed cancer, and he had to be put down last week. This wasn't the plan, Diane likes to just let them die as long as they aren't in pain, but the vet said he would be better off, so she made the decision. We are so sad and we will miss him. All wolfhounds are magnificent and have great personalities, but Riley was just something special. I considered him "my" dog, because he loved me so much, even though I didn't live in his house. Please forgive my rambling rememberances, but I just wanted to go down memory lane a little bit for my dear, sweet doggy. :-)

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Addendum to previous post....

Thanks for all the positive feedback. Its good to know that there are other people who feel the same way I do. I just wanted to make sure that I made it clear that my post was not a jab at conservatism. It was a jab at people who feel secure on how they are on the outside, but take no thought of how they treat others. I see people who are less conservative, belittle those who are more conservative and vice versa. As human beings we are not going to agree on everything and what we need to figure out is that it is OKAY, if we don't. It is NOT our job to make everyone toe the line according to our own beliefs. It is God's job to make sure that HIS children listen and obey Him. If you are a child of His, all you need to worry about is how YOU are doing with your relationship with God. ( Obviously, I am not talking about the commandments or other things that are clearly spelled out in the Bible. I am talking about those things that might be a bit ambiguous.) I just didn't want someone to take this wrong, and feel like I was looking down on others who may be of the more conservative persuasion. :-)

Monday, October 6, 2008

Actions speak louder than words!

I am sitting here at the computer contemplating what I am about to write. I am wondering if anyone will read it, and if they do, if they will understand it in the way that I am feeling it. I am fairly certain that the majority of my blogging buddies have been raised in similar surroundings as I have myself, so those are the people that I am addressing in this little soap box that I am about to get on. As I mentioned in an earlier post, most of the people that I hang out with are non-christians. I also mentioned that I have been feeling really heavy hearted about being able to show them Christ. They are very turned off to even the mention of spiritual things. The very next week, after that post, I went out to dinner with a couple of friends and amazingly enough, the conversation turned to spiritual things. I want to tread carefully here, but I have to say, I was incredibly saddened and angry at the stories that I heard that night. To my utter shock, both of them were raised in fairly conservative churches. I was so surprised, I couldn't hide it from them, and then they started talking about their experiences growing up in the church. One friend told how her parents sacrificed so much to give to the church and then it ended up that someone had been stealing from the church, she also remembers how they would have potluck dinners and one lady would stand guard over her crock pot of potatoes and you would enter her black list if you took any potatoes from any other crock pot. She talked about the way people fought with each other, how they argued over things like carpet colors and decorations. She said that eventually the church went in 5 different directions and her parents never went to church again. I can't even remember all the things that she told me, but unfortunately I have heard similar stories too many times from too many other people. Then my other friend started to talk about her experience, how her parents didn't dress her like all her "conservative" friends and she went to public school, so the parents in the church didn't want their kids hanging out with her because she was a "bad" influence. She said she was so confused by that, since she was a really good kid. She remembered wanting to go on a youth trip, and how the pastor basically discouraged her from going and then finally told her dad that she "needed to have a "C" average to go." My friend was practically a genius and had always had straight "A's", but remembers to this day how rejected she felt by that pastor and her church, overall. I think you all can imagine where I am going with this. There was plenty more that they had to say, but I'll spare you all the gory details. My point and the reason for this soapbox is this....The church is supposed to be a safe place, a beacon of hope, love, and togetherness. It is for fellowship with our Christian brother. It is for the spreading of the gospel. Not for leaving children with the impression that it has left on my friends! The image of selfishness, foolish pride, greed, murmurings and complainings, grudges and the inability to accept people that look different or maybe do things differently than we think they should. I was flooded with the knowledge that some of our churches are going to have a pretty big price to pay on Judgment day. I know that no church is perfect, nor will there ever be one that is. I also know that each individual is responsible for his or her own salvation. But I have heard these stories and seen them played out over and over and over and over. I have felt rejection in my own life from something similar, and so has quite a few people close to me. ENOUGH! Maybe if we would obey Scripture and "set our minds on things above" the color of the carpet or who eats your potatoes, or what someone wears, won't matter so much. Is it worth it to hold onto our "rights", when it might mean the soul of someone else? If someone has wronged you, is it worth someone's soul to hold a grudge? In the long run, would it really hurt you, that much, to say your sorry, even if you don't think you were the one in the wrong? Isn't that what it is all about? Saving the lost? Doesn't the Bible have something to say about "loving your nieghbor as you would yourself?" You see, as a church, people are watching us all the time, they are seeing how we interact and when our actions don't hold up to Scripture and what we say we believe, it convinces them, that it is all a farce. When pastors preach the Bible and then don't live up to their own preaching, it gives them a pretty powerful excuse to walk away and never look back. On the contrary, when God is preached and love and acceptance is shown, souls are changed, forever! I was happy to tell them, that church doesn' t always have to be that way, and that I loved the church that I grew up in. I was able to tell them that I had a pastor whom I loved and still do to this day. I was able to tell them that my church became my extended family. I was blessed with so many friends and "family" that I would not have had otherwise. Those people that were my family, growing up, are still my family today. People like, Jo and Gary, Larry, Bro. and Sis. Eldred, Linnie and Dorothy, Mr. and Mrs. Coxon, and so many others who have had a profound interest in my life and helped to shape me into the person I am today. That is what makes a church great. My dad was one of those "outsiders" who found God through the church that I grew up in. Do you think he would have stayed more than a minute if he felt rejected or saw people fighting over the petty things that people fight over? What if he had found out that some people wouldn't let their kids be around him because he didn't look like they thought he should look? I think he would have headed out and never turned back, and I can only imagine what my life would have been like, then. Thank God, there were some people who were bigger than pettiness and helped to influence my Dad for Christ. I said all that to say this.....the next time someone offends you, or someone does something you don't like, or someone hurts your feelings (because lets be honest...its going to happen), just remember, there are souls who are going to be influenced for ETERNITY, by how YOU react. (disclaimer: this message is as much to me as to anyone else)

Red Flannel Day part 2


Kaelah in front of some Red Flannels


My dad and Kaelah demonstrating their expertise in head stands.


I just think this is so funny! Check out Jade and Jeremy watching.


A tiny bit of Pilgrim alumni, who celebrated RDF together. :-)